If you wish to include children in your wedding as either a ring bearer, a flower girl or by assigning them a task that helps them to feel included, take care to follow these tips to help things run as smooth as possible and to make participating in your wedding a pleasurable experience for the child. From the couple's attire, to the decorations, music, favors and even wording of the vows the couple can ensure that every aspect of the wedding reflects their chosen theme.
Perhaps the most important criteria in choosing a wedding planner is the degree of comfort that you feel with them. Try to choose a ring bearer and flower girl who are over the age of four and while the adult participants may only need to run through their part once, allow extra time for the child to practice their part several times. Nowadays, it is common for the couple themselves will usually shoulder the financial burdens of the wedding.
Another way to get the child excited is to take them shopping for their wedding attire instead of choosing an outfit for them without their input. You will want to be comfortable on your wedding day so dress according to the weather. If you know that you have allotted three hundred dollars for entertainment you would be wise to seek out a DJ that is offering his services for approximately that amount and then negotiate your contract to ensure that you remain under budge.
While it is important to speak from the heart, it's also important to make sure that no one who has really gone out of their way to assist the couple is left out of the thank you speech. No matter which way you choose to go, be sure to mail out your bridal shower invitations at least two weeks before the shower.
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